<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><item href="/news/whats-so-traumatic-about-turning-40.html" dsn="news"><title>Seriously now, what’s so traumatic about turning 40?</title><item_date>06/01/2017 12:00:00 PM</item_date><author>Jaci Conroy</author><image><img src="/news/images/boston-globe-masthead_1.png" alt="Seriously now, what's so traumatic about turning 40?"/></image><image_caption/><thumbnail><img src="/news/images/boston-globe-masthead_1.png" alt="Seriously now, what's so traumatic about turning 40?"/></thumbnail><summary>Instead of fearing it and dwelling on regrets, let’s embrace it.</summary><category>In the News</category><featured/><tags><tag>In the News</tag></tags></item>